In a swinging lifestyle, nobody cares about past relationships, or hangups. In a swinging lifestyle, couples simply give and receive pleasure but there are many important things you should always keep in mind when entering this lifestyle.
Do not start swinging, if you or your partner does not wish to swing.
Do not enter a Swinger lifestyle, if you are not absolutely sure about your relationship, and what you both want out of Swinging.
It is extremely important that couples in a Swinging lifestyle have excellent communication with each other. Couples in a swinging lifestyle must be confident and capable of talking openly with each other.
Swinger Lifestyle Common Practices:
Soft swinging
Soft swinging involves couples watching other couples while having sex with only your partner. This may include some shared foreplay, usually oral sex, where no vaginal penetration or intercourse will occur. Soft swinging is intended to be a turn on for couples, to spice things up a little and so that you can achieve more pleasure out of sex with each other. Many new swinging couples try this type of swinging first before jumping into full swinging. (open or closed swinging).
Closed swinging
This is the most frequent and commonly referred to as “wife swapping” and takes place when two couples exchange partners and have sex in separate rooms. In closed swinging, both partners should have an intimate experience. Most swinging couples practice this, since there’s minimal chance of them being interrupted.
Open swinging
Open swinging consists of couples swapping and having sex in the same room, at the same time, and sometimes even on the same bed. This implies an orgy and there is a good chance you’ll experience some exhibitionism and voyeurism. Open swinging is a complete and total release. Leave all your inhabitations behind and open yourself to fantasies. However, for open swinging to be enjoyable, no one in the group should have any jealous feelings or inhibitions.