How to nicely reject a coworker??

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Master of Tokyo Swingers
So there's this guy I work with (I just started this job about 2 weeks ago) and he is super nice and I've talked to him a little bit. He said we should see a movie on Sunday before our shift. What should I do?

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F.
Mathew, It is great to acknowledge your sex-appeal to other men. ^_^ In general, I think dating colleagues especially in Tokyo is a bad idea. Unless both can keep it utterly private it is a sure path to trouble.

Whenever a female co-worker (no matter how hot) made some advance or simply gave some indicators of interest, I say I already have plan with my GF (even if I don't have one at the moment).

You don't want to alienate her/him either, after all, you are working with that person and see her/him almost everyday.

Cheers F.
Master of Tokyo Swingers
Very nice reply, F.

I don't know if I would be able to resist... lol
sultrykitten
Would he buy me a Prada bag? hehe
Master of Tokyo Swingers
Well, maybe not Prada... lol

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